Pastor Ebuka Obi is currently advising ladies to date multiple men before finally settling for one to marry, this advise has set the internet on fire and everybody is voicing their opinion.
Popular Nigerian pastor Ebuka Obi has sparked quite a buzz online with his unconventional advice to single women about relationships and marriage.
Pastor Ebuka Obi
During a recent church session, he encouraged women looking for marriage not to rush into just one relationship too soon. He suggested that dating multiple men—without any sexual involvement—can help women better assess character, consistency, and seriousness before making a commitment.
Pastor Ebuka Obi
“Date four, five, six men. Just make sure you don’t sleep with any of them. You can even be considering three at a time to find the one God will choose,” Pastor Obi shared. Pastor Ebuka Obi
He went on to explain that marriage shouldn’t be rushed through pressure or emotional ties, emphasizing that the right partner will naturally step up to propose when the time is right. Pastor Ebuka Obi
“When God has chosen the right one, that person will take the step to propose,” he added.
His comments have since gone viral, igniting a heated debate across social media. Supporters argue that this advice encourages wisdom, patience, and discernment, especially in a society where many feel pressured to rush into relationships due to age and societal expectations.
On the flip side, critics worry that this approach might lead to emotional confusion, a lack of commitment, and unrealistic expectations—particularly for men who might unknowingly find themselves in a “selection process.”
Some have also questioned whether dating multiple people at once truly aligns with Christian values, even if there’s no sexual involvement.
Pastor Obi’s remarks have reopened a larger discussion about modern dating, faith-based relationships, emotional boundaries, and how singles can make better marital choices without regrets. Pastor Ebuka Obi
As the conversation around marriage continues to evolve, one thing is clear—this advice has certainly struck a chord.
Is dating multiple people before marriage a wise choice or an unnecessary gamble? Should churches be rethinking dating norms in today’s world?
Meanwhile; Veteran Fuji musician Sir Shina Peters breaks silence after a viral video of pastor Pastor Ashimolowo using him as a bad example to teach his congregation on importance of good investment
The pastor was seen in the viral video saying sir Shina Peters wasted 20 million naira back in early days to acquire a house instead of investing it while pa Jim Ovia used same amount to start what we know today as Zenith Bank, what a generational wealth
A storm has been brewing online ever since a viral video surfaced featuring popular clergyman Matthew Ashimolowo comparing the life choices of veteran musician Sir Shina Peters and Zenith Bank founder Jim Ovia. Now, Sir Shina has finally decided to respond.
In the clip that quickly spread across social media, Pastor Ashimolowo was discussing the concept of delayed gratification. He claimed that years ago, both men supposedly had ₦20 million. According to him, Shina Peters opted to buy a house with his money, while Jim Ovia chose to invest his in starting a bank. The pastor went on to say that while the bank has flourished into a global institution, “one man is now fixing leaking roofs, broken toilets, and doors.”
Veteran singer Daddy Showkey was among the first to speak out, taking to Instagram to defend Shina Peters and openly challenge what he called a degrading and unnecessary comparison. Continue reading here
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