Man has revealed the strategy some men use to ch0p girls if they do not want to spend on them
A Nigerian man, Kunmi Àgbà Farmer, has sparked reactions on X after revealing a strategy some men use to make girls perceive them as financially stable and become more supportive in relationships.
In a post shared on his X account, @kunmigbenga, Kunmi narrated how some men take women to unfinished building projects that do not belong to them, creating the impression that they are wealthy individuals with major investments. Ch0p girls
“Omo, I just hear one new format wey some guys dey use ch0p girls o! 😂,” he began.
Explaining how the alleged strategy works, he wrote: “Dem go carry babe inside car, then branch one building site wey still dey under construction.. the site no be their own o.”
According to him, the men would leave their female companions inside an air-conditioned car before stepping out to greet the construction workers and engage them in casual conversations.
“Before dem leave, dem go bring out small cash give the workers. The babe go dey observe for inside car,” he added.
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Kunmi claimed that the men would then return to the car and present the building project as their own investment, telling the women they had already spent millions of naira on the project and had more money to complete it.
He suggested that the impression could change how the women perceive their partners, making them more willing to remain loyal, reduce their financial demands and offer support while anticipating future benefits.
“Omo, from that moment, the babe go begin reason am differently. She go wan loyal because she don see say the guy get serious investment and plenty expenses,” he wrote.
“She fit even begin manage herself financially, with the hope say when the project finally finish, she go enjoy the benefits too.”
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Following the post, some X users questioned the logic behind the approach, while others suggested that the tactic was not new.
One user, @wereyboi007, reacted by questioning whether the effort was worth it, writing: “All these wahala on top knack??? Be like you still dey 2009.”
Kunmi, however, clarified that the alleged strategy was not primarily about sex but about encouraging women to become financially supportive partners.
“No be for knack.. d girl go Dey press money she go wan Dey supportive,” he replied.
He further explained the financial angle, adding: “Dem say na d girl go Dey later press money for the guy.”
Another user, @joph007_, appeared unimpressed by the amount of effort involved, commenting: “Too stressful for me to execute.”
Meanwhile, @Eleniyanshehon suggested that the supposed strategy had been around for a long time, writing: “Scope wey don Dey since No be today.”
Responding to the comment, Kunmi said: “And you Dey hide am.”
The discussion also attracted a humorous reaction from @StoriesByFM, who appeared concerned that the revelation could expose a tactic he had yet to use.
“Bro why you dey cast this update now I never use this update no cast am abeg,” the user wrote.
See the full post here:
Omo, I just hear one new format wey some guys dey use chop girls o! 😂
Dem go carry babe inside car, then branch one building site wey still dey under construction.. the site no be their own o. Dem go leave the babe inside the car with AC on, come down to greet the workers and engage them in small talks. Before dem leave, dem go bring out small cash give the workers. The babe go dey observe for inside car
Dem go now enter the car and tell the babe say the workers dey really try, say e don spend many millions on the project and still get plenty money to spend so the building go finish on time.
Omo, from that moment, the babe go begin reason am differently. She go wan loyal because she don see say the guy get serious investment and plenty expenses. She fit even begin manage herself financially, with the hope say when the project finally finish, she go enjoy the benefits too.
— Kunmi Àgbà Farmer (@kunmigbenga) October 22, 2026
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