Nigerian Lady Slams Men Who Fake Love to Have S3x With Women as Viral Video Sparks Debate
A Nigerian lady has called out men who pretend to love women just to have s3x with them, urging them to always communicate their intention
Nigerian Lady Calls Out Men Who Fake Love for S3x
A Nigerian lady has sparked widespread debate on social media after calling out men who allegedly pretend to love women just to have sex with them.
In a video currently trending online, the visibly emotional lady urged men who are not interested in serious relationships to be honest about their intentions instead of making promises of love to gain s3xual access to women.
According to her, some men deliberately make women believe they are in committed relationships when their actual intention is only to have s3x with them.
“If you know you don’t have any good intention for girl, tell her. Don’t just lie because you want to chop her, you will now lie that you love her,” she said.
She further criticised the practice of using relationships as a means of having sex without genuine intentions of commitment.
“You guys should stop lying,” she added, urging men to communicate their intentions honestly before entering romantic relationships.
The video has since generated mixed reactions, with social media users debating honesty in dating, s3xual expectations, heartbreak and the responsibilities of both men and women in relationships.
Mixed reactions trail Nigerian lady ‘s video
While some commenters appeared to sympathise with the lady, others questioned her, shared personal experiences of heartbreak or argued that some people use dating to determine whether a potential partner is suitable for a serious commitment.
One commenter, identified as @empire66718, responded by questioning whether women also disclose their intentions when dating multiple men.
“Na so Una dey dey tell us the truth na Una way fit date like 10 different guys,” the commenter wrote.
Similarly, @Dadyfwesh suggested that the lady might have experienced heartbreak, writing: “Another Emma don show this one shege.”
Another commenter, @EGamon62807, offered a different perspective, arguing that some people date different partners before deciding whom they want to commit to.
“The thing is that in the process of chopping some of you we dey use am know the one to really get serious with, someone that deserves your time and energy, so once we see you are not that person”, we leave,” the commenter stated.
Watch the full video here:
“If you know you don’t have any good intention for girl, tell her. Don’t just lie because you want to chop her, you will now lie that you love her. You will be using relationship to be chopping girls, it’s not okay! If you know you cannot date the girl and you just want to be chopping her, tell her. You guys should stop lying”
—Lady cries out
— Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) October 21, 2026
Menwhile, A Nigerian pastor has urged his church members to block social media critic VeryDarkMan (VDM), accusing him of influencing people to stop attending church.
In a viral video circulating online, the pastor was heard telling his congregation to unfollow the controversial activist, whom he described as an “antichrist.”
According to the pastor, some people have allegedly found it difficult to attend church services following statements made by VeryDarkMan.
“VeryDarkMan, all of you need to block him on Facebook, unfollow that antichrist. A lot of people are now staying at home and finding it difficult to come to church, all because of what VDM said,” the pastor said.
The video has generated heated discussions online, with social media users expressing different opinions about the pastor’s remarks and the growing influence of VeryDarkMan, who is known for his outspoken commentary on social issues, public figures and religious leaders. Continue reading here.
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